I still haven’t worked out who I want to be or what I want to do when I grow up, so on this blog please join me while I try and work it out while keeping child-like creativity alive!  Find home and fashion inspiration; travel and days out; photography, writing and more. Have fun looking around 🙂

 

00

Word of the year 2020

word of the year

It’s a little late in the day, but I’m afraid everything is running a little late due to packing and taking ourselves off to America for a few weeks! (There are still Christmas decorations to take down when we get back!) However, better late than never, so here’s my blog post about choosing my word of the year, and how to pick yours…

Is a word of the year helpful?

I thought I would have a little chat about my word of the year. As an alternative to New Year’s resolutions, lots of people are instead, picking a word of the year to guide them. It’s a word to refer to if you’re in doubt about something; it’s a word to remind you how you want to feel or the direction you want your life to head in. I’ve chosen a word of the year for the last couple of years, and I’ve genuinely found it to be helpful. I started this in 2018 and if you’d like to read more, then please take a look at the blog post I wrote then about why I began choosing a word of the year. (There are some more word ideas there too.) My word was ‘Persevere’. I chose it because I’d spent too long in 2017 doubting myself and wondering if it was time to give up on everything. I made the decision to stop going over those doubts, and just get on with it. And it really did help! I really did stop wasting time pondering the same old negative things, and instead that time was put to use producing more content and working on Threads of a Fairytale.

In 2019 my word of the year was ‘Nurture.’ And you can read more about that in last year’s word of the year blog post! I picked it because I thought we’d be in America for a good portion of the year again (it turned out to only be a month) so I thought I wouldn’t really be able to push the business forward very much. So the word ‘nurture’ was about looking after it until I was ready to go full steam ahead.

Again, I kept my wooden pyrographed charm on my desk in front of me all year, and again I found it helpful. I nurtured my clothing business; I made loads of clothes ready to list in the shop, and I kept up with the marketing. When the business wasn’t a massive roaring success, I reminded myself it was ok; I was only nurturing it this year, that would come later. Having the word there to see every day gave me guidance.

how to choose a word of the year

My word of the year for 2020

It’s ‘Change.’ I’ll be honest, I didn’t really want to head into the new decade doing the same old things that I’ve been doing for the last few years. I work really long hours and often get stressed about work. Even though I haven’t been striving to forge way ahead, I had hoped to move things forward more than I have. So this year, I’m changing things up and trying some things differently. I’ll be honest, I’m not exactly sure how yet! I didn’t pick this word as my Word Of The Year until recently, so I haven’t had chance to fully think things through. However, now I’m back in America for a few weeks, without the distractions of all the things that need doing round the house, hopefully I’ll have time to figure it all out and make some tangible goals for this year.

I have already had some ideas for slightly different style YouTube videos, which I’m quite excited to make, so I hope you like them! I’ve also already changed things on Instagram, and I wrote about that last week.

So I’ll keep my word of the year charm on my desk in front of me, like I always do. If I find myself slipping back into old unproductive habits, hopefully I’ll see my word and it will remind me to stop!

choosing a word of the year

How to choose your word of the year

Hopefully my examples have explained what having a word of the year is all about. I’ve talked mainly about work-related guidance, but my words have also had personal references as well. And there are no hard and fast rules here; there’s no reason why you couldn’t have two words – one for work, and perhaps one for home life if the word doesn’t match both those things. My word ‘Nurture’ also related to my health – both mental and physical as I wanted to look after that as well. I also wanted to nurture and enjoy my family life and spending quality time with Chris and the kids.

Just spend a couple of days mulling it over whenever you’re waiting in a queue for something; sitting at traffic lights or waiting to fall asleep. The word might simply come to you like that. If not, it’s time to get journalling! Reflect on last year – would you like more of the same in your life or do you want to change things? Think about what is important to you right now and the goals you want to achieve. How do you want to feel? What would you like to focus on this year? If you think of a word, but it isn’t quite right, get the thesaurus open and see if any of the results hit the right chord.

There’s no need to rush

Choosing a word of the year is a good opportunity to stop and think about what you really want. Look inwards – don’t think about what is expected of you, or what you think you’re meant to want. Don’t worry if a word doesn’t come to you straight away, but when it does, you’ll probably know instinctively that it’s the right one.

Do you pick a word of the year? Do you find it helpful? Will this be the first year of trying one?

 

Linking withNot Dressed as Lamb for #sharealllinkup

Health,
00no comment

Other posts you may like:

Afternoon tea in Bath
Afternoon Tea with Mr Darcy at the Jane Austen Centre in Bath, Somerset
September 21, 2018
We asked what Jude would like to do for her Twentieth birthday (yes, you did hear me correctly: twentieth birthday) and she asked to go out for afternoon tea. I’ll be honest, when I agreed, I was thinking more like at a National Trust cafe, but Jude had in mind the full afternoon tea experience. Apart from on a cruise, I’ve never done this, (it’s the sort of thing I’ll do when I grow up) so was looking forward to experiencing the proper deal….
Rogue theatre company review
Review of The Firebird by the Rogue Theatre Company in Cornwall
August 31, 2018
Imagine, if you will, being met by a fairy at the edge of magical woodland, and led down a secret pathway shaded by old twisted rowan and chattering leaves of beech, but lit by glinting lights strung through the branches. Each way you turn you’re met with strange and eerie settings of mysterious white princess bedrooms, strangely metallic baby clothes hanging on a line; gothic ravens adorning old books; abandoned tea parties disturbingly strewn with red; and odd antique paintings foreseeing the future; each with its character singing, dancing or otherwise performing as you pass. And that’s just the beginning…..
Adagio teas
Tea for people who don’t like tea! (And for those who do.)
October 3, 2018
When Adagio Teas asked if I’d like to work with them, I had to be honest in my reply; that I don’t actually like tea. On my trips to America, this is like saying I’m not actually British, but my main disgruntle is that I couldn’t join in with all the beautiful Instagrams of cups of tea! I do, however like fruit infusions, and the mango flavoured tea I had at the Jane Austen Centre a couple of weeks ago was very nice, so I asked if I could try their flavoured tea….

Leave a Reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Instagram did not return a 200.